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If I have been chatting with someone for a while a dinner date can be fun... but just a random hook up or doing more than dinner on that first meeting... Never going to happen for me. My brain/body just doesn't work that way.
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For me its not so much drive through sex, but more vacation sex. lol I do my summer travels, and recently have added winter travel in the mix, and am always open to meeting women while on vacation. Especially other bloggers. Thoughts from the Garden...
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Ms Flower, I am a guy who is willing to travel by request, so much of my encounter are "drive-through" or "fly-by".... But I see your point.... It is a bit different for a man, security, safety and such.... And NSA/FWB only work if both parties are committed to it. Dive by sex is also not really equivalent to spontaneous sexual encounters either...
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There is no magic button, it's mostly the dirty mind and the willingness to be wild or kinky almost nasty or beyond naughty. Divient in a way.
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For me - no appeal at all - I simply need to 'know' a person before going there. I've had a couple bad experiences and I guess my head is too much 'in it' to simply enjoy the sex without knowing the person. I don't consider sex to be impersonal. Is it? In a strange way, I don't feel like I can be present without considering a woman, and now that I think of it, the portrayals of sex in porn, even amateur porn, still has very impersonal sex. It's thrilling, but rare, to see porn where a woman is truly being considered. IMHO... As for 'kink' - I feel like most people would need a level of trust to feel free to engage fully... WW.
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For me I hate eating alone so if I am traveling and there is someone from here that I know lives in the area I will send them a message to meet. It is not about sex but about meeting new people. Putting a face and voice with a blog. I have met several over the years and all were great outings. But I also would not rule out a little extra activity if BOTH seemed to want it. I would certainly send you an invite as I think you would be a great person to have dinner and a drink with. Of course you will have to leave the ropes and chains at home. 
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I see your point. A first date should only be a date - without expectation for sex. Have a meeting, have dinner, drink, coffee, get to know each other.
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Where are the women who accept nsa one-time hookups from out-of-towners? I doubt very much they exist. There is a popular blogger here (from LV NV) who writes about her meets with out-of-towners. There is quite a lot of communication / negotiation between both parties that precedes the meetings - you have to read her posts to understand all the effort involved into finding the right type / chemistry before the visit itself. It's a far cry from the "hi stranger, I'll be staying at t x hotel come for dinner tomorrow and meet me..." messages. I don't see how those messages, that attitude, can ever produce positive results.
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Quoting aflower2c : But the vast majority of the "in town/hotel" messages are from guys looking for a free sex worker. They want to tonight or this coming wknd, and they rarely want any chat before that. Basically the only women I knew that where into nsa/anonymous sex where recently divorced/separated women only bec it was exciting as i doubt the sex was all that good. I agree, and that's why I don't bother, as I seriously doubt it could ever be a positive experience without good/adequate communication prior.
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