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He sounds like a very nice young man and it's always nice to receive compliments like those. Many say that young men like him don't have great etiquette in fact there are some that really do. Thanks for sharing this positive blog today..And I hope you have a great Hump Day..
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11/14/2018 10:18 am |
He sounds lime a very nice guy. Its nice to recieve compliments like that.
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Most of my messages are quite polite. Maybe it is “ don’t upset the ole broad” or “respect your elders”, Really, very few are rude or crude. I ignore those. And when I reply, I am in the no thanks stage right now, they thank me for answering. You are right, the bad guys seem to get the attention here. He sounds so nice.
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That is a nice compliment. It's respectful, shows interest rather than entitlement, and he personalized it a little bit. MUCH better than the "hi sexy/hi gorgeous/mmmmmm" generic stuff.
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I have to say I have never received a rude message or comment. Although one gentlemen did say I had butt and breast implants..lol. Granted some are quite vague, some not to my taste there is nothing that I have felt a need to rant about.
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Always good to hear somebody put a smile on your face Lala. I think most folks who have been on this site long enough get it that there is a lot of absolute nonsense & general lack of courtesy here, especially towards women. Yet you are right we shouldn't let that cavalcade of Debbie Downers make us lose sight of the people who go about their business in a normal polite & sociable manner.
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Take the compliment as it is worded, and from the other end of the life spectrum, you do have a wonderful smile. a lot of positive comments and compliments are given here daily , but like the local evening news, only the bad things make it to show time. Thanks for sharing this smile .. Stop by at lonlyforlove2 also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker" also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'
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Chivalry lives!! Hello old friend I haven't seen you in a while!! Nice young man, does he blog? All true too of course, but then I just get a slap when I try to compliment you! McSnoggster!!
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You do have a nice smile, and from talking with you, I'd say you deserve more compliments than you say you're getting. You bring up a great point for out in the world too. So many times we complain when service or something isn't up to our standards. But then forget to compliment when it's good. Great food for thought. " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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I've received some messages with a true, genuine compliment in them as an initial contact as opposed to the backhanded compliment/compliment with a hook in it type. It's very refreshing and just gives me the warm fuzzies. It's also unfortunate that most of the time they're from men who are not compatible or are too far away. Some of them have been from much younger men, too!
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11/14/2018 2:35 pm |
Compliment Deserved! Some people elevate themselves by revealing a Real Human Beings within. There is indeed a difference between people and human beings. Your consideration and compassion of and for others, makes you Rare Indeed, which is a Great Thing, I do believe! Playfully I would consider that "Abby Normal" which in this day and time, means, much more desirable.
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Good on you for recognizing a positive message. Just a thought - you could leave him a tribute - seems like a nice gesture here. Re: catching more flies with honey, yeah I never really got that saying. Shit does draw flies and why would I want a fly that was probably standing on a steaming pile recently? amp; When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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That young man has a bright future. Did I ever tell you about the time I picked up a girl in a bar by complimenting her ear rings? It was a genuine compliment, they really did strike me, and it turned out she had designed and constructed them herself, Well one thing lead to another, and being it WAS the 80s she ended up going home with me. But we were not compatible long term, she was very artsy and such, whereas I'm (at more core) more logical and practical. Movember, on HNW Rules of the Road Setting a New Record SOS Slower, Older, Smarter [post 3312759] My Private Blog - Tell Me ALL Your Secrets
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You do have a wonderful smile and a wonderful personality. Shame you didn’t have more in common. I’ve been fortunate to have interacted with more decent guys on here than not. And yes...that is the end of my comment
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What a nice message to get! It's always nice to get a sincere compliment, though I have to admit, I may not always recognize them. I don't know how to respond to compliments myself. They always catch me off guard and I say something stupid instead of smiling and saying a sincere thank you. I am in the same boat as TravelJunkie...I have interacted with more decent guys than obnoxious ones, even the ones that weren't quite a "fit". "Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is relax." – Mark Black
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Does he live my way?
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A man that understands a bit o honey on the tongue is much better bait than a man who insists on holding a knife to your throat, will find many more women favorably responding. I hope you at least reward this guy with some nice conversation!
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What a brilliant idea - to accentuate the positive. I should really copy and paste the really nice compliments and put them in a document that I can look at, when I am feeling really down about this place. I've gotten messages which I think are dumb, or not well-thought out - but one really good one can cancel out months of abysmal ones that are only worth deleting. Check out my profile or and become a "watcher" of my blog FMAOPLS,to learn more about me, and for intelligent, lively, smartassy and fun discussion, with a little irreverence thrown in. "Like" or comment on my photos, and I promise I'll add more. Thanks.
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Good for you for the positive post, appreciate it. Politeness usually begets politeness.
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I'd never send just one line in a message. I don't write essays either! I believe the first message should be complimentary but not unrealistic.
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it is always so lovely to be treated well but it should be the norm not the noted exception. i'm going to thank his parents for bringing him up right....his father for showing him how to treat a woman and his mother for providing a shining example of hwo a woman deserves to be treated. now for all I know his parents had nothing to do with his attitude but somehow he learned. and he is so right that smile of yours...……..ooooh lala You cannot conceive the many without the one.
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