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1/18/2019 12:46 pm |
Very interesting and great info about the subject. "Sweet, steamy, sensuous kisses light the bright fires of passionate lust within us." scott6250
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1/18/2019 12:55 pm |
lol people analyze way too much about trivial things such as how often sex is a factor in an fwb situation..as we age our interests change and even though we value our independence and single life , we still have the need for intimacy without the total gf /bf thing..Having an fwb adds structure without actually building a house..It is lazy days not just about sex but about having a few laughs and good times without having to be joined at the hip..I value everything about having someone who I can relax without pressure and do things without restrictions fwb is not for everyone but if you are lucky to find someone who does not jeopardize your, his or her individuality ..that's important to me more than anything..I had a couple and when we did part ways we remained friends who didn't use the intimacy factor in order to be close...
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Wow,she took that way to far...LOL. I hope the person she referred that too was listening
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Because there are lots of different reasons why someone might be missing something in their marriages like health issues, disabilities there are so many reasons my friend and everyone should do what is right for them just saying..
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Hello Beautiful! I have been with two FWB it's not all that good will always lead to more serous commit believe me been there! The two I been with doing that were both very nice ladies but didn't last very long. It got down that they wanted more so stopped that. Have one that I like very much but that's going bad haven't been with her for 2 months not sure what her problem is. We still talk she always says we will get together soon. But this is getting stupid. Starting to look at someone different. Life is to short for me just to set and wait for something that may not happen! Butch
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FWB...? Sure... I guess... If I use my left hand.... 🖐️ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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What... What...? For fuchs sake. My brain is shut down... It's happy hour... 🍸 I had a FWB for 3 years and she eventually wanted more. Didn't work out. We never got together after that. Although I would still see her around. Eventually with her husband.. As her marriage fell apart, I would get phone calls, that I would ignore.. Yep... 🤔 It's a case by case thing.. Ok 🆗 later.... 🍸🍻 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Can't help you with this question. I have to agree about feelings developing in such a situation and other parts of this blog. I am older than when I enjoyed sex for the pleasure of sex. If she liked swinging I would be all in for that, at least for a while. STDs is always a concern even with a condom or dam, some are transmittable through oral contact. STDs sure do take the fun out of sex.
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I had an fwb for 4 years. We were best friends, did things in and out of bed, slept over sometimes and were monogamous. The best part was that either of us could say no, go to our own homes with no expectations. We planned on enjoying our arrangement until it didn’t work anymore. It ended when she moved out west to be closer to her family. We're still friends 5 years later. It was perfect for us. Friends with benefits between 2 people who didn't want more.
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Having a fuck buddy is not the same as having an fwb. They meet, fuck, go home.
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I have been in several fwb relationships in the past 20 years or so. Of the woman with whom I was actively having intimate relationships over that time, we have always remained friends. 2 have since moved out of the state (both were friends and lovers of mine for over 10 years each) and 2 became involved in monogamous relationships. There have been a couple others as well. As a rule, we participated in both one on one experiences as well as group sex experiences. I have always clicked best with women who are interested or at least intrigued by group sex and have a high libido. I believe we all really liked each other and in a couple cases there were romantic feelings as well. But those romantic feelings were never enough to push the pendulum to divorcing our spouses and remarrying. There will be a bunch of folks that really get mad when I write this, but I really like my wife. We are great friends and love each other dearly. What we don't share is a very high libido and a passion for group sex. I have both, she has neither. It's taken a good deal of marriage counseling, but we have settled on a "don't ask, don't tell" policy. She prefers not to know and I work very hard at making sure she doesn't have to know. Yes, it's a dangerous lifestyle. But the rewards are also pretty great. I hope and I pray for a Hester to win just one more "A", the sadder but wiser girl for me.
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I am only looking for friends.......
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Hi Joy... taking me a little bit further... I'm just a guy... now, with my "sliding top 30"... I don't know how I would react to them, if they actually came into contact with me... I mean... sure... I want to be a kept man... but, I'm not a piece of meat... I've probably been someone's charity fuck... but, that's ok... I'm not complaining... now as far as fwb.. you know... I don't believe in friends after lovers... it's an impossible world like saying there's a better place than God's country... that's crazy... so... I'm just going to let it go at that... just sayin'... and, I'll leave you with this one... KSI, MNDM - "Friends With Benefits" Way too young for the ring ting Now you wanna dance on a king ping Sixty-eight plus one, that's a win-win Time to slide in like a penguin You don't need ice, no bling bling No hobby, no wife, just a friend ting Live your whole life to the ending There's no point pretending Let's be friends, with benefits We can chill, and Netflix No strings, like Hendrix Let's pimp, like Kendrick Let's go deep into a world, that only we can see They can't touch us, they can't judge us cuz we're crazy young and free It's not me troubling you It's not you troubling me Can I trust you not to love me? Let's be FWBs FWB, FWBs FWB, FWBs... To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!!
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1/18/2019 8:38 pm |
I would not do it because of STD'S ..You have no idea Who else they are sleeping with.. You can't expect to be Old & Wise..If You were never Young & Crazy!!!
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Great blog! I am of the same mind as you are. FWB just won't work for me for some of the reasons you gave. Not willing to be anything else but the #1 in a man's life, no sloppy seconds, not getting any STI's etc. I was in a relationship where I was led to believe I was the only one, and this guy looked me in the eyes as we were together and lied. Unfortunately as you said, the more we had been together, the more my feelings developed for him. Clearly his were not the same... Heartbreak city.....live and learn! Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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Author51, u write a very good blog. I have to agree with your views. You still have a great ass.
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I make a distinctions between Friend with Benefits and a Fuck Buddy. A FWB is a friend first, who you also fuck. The friendship is formed well before the fucking begins. The are emotions involved in the relationship like any true friendship relationship. A fuck buddy, is all about fucking. A friendship may develop out of the sexual relationship, but it doesn't have as strong a connection as a FWB relationship. Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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