What is the least amount of time that you think you should know someone before you become intimate?  

LetsChillax 52F  
5692 posts
12/26/2018 2:44 pm
What is the least amount of time that you think you should know someone before you become intimate?

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Not at all, I like em strange
At least a few minutes at the bar first
Few days of online chatting
Few weeks of online chatting and phone calls
Two-three dates
30-60 days
Depends on the person
Other, described below


adventuresrus50 56M  
17 posts
3/13/2019 6:31 pm

Every man alive will take the first chance he gets. If it is 5 minutes or 5 weeks the moment she says go he is all in. So basically women control the time of courting to fucking. I have made the mistake of the 5 min wait time wound up in the hands of an alien. So now I try to at least figure out if they are what they appear to be before going for the end game.


just2c2006 64M
129 posts
3/12/2019 10:45 pm

Yeah, we are all horny here and want to fuck.


BlackPussyRules 54M  
736 posts
3/9/2019 10:42 pm

Not at all in my fantasies. In real life though I want to know that person.


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PHD314 55M
4 posts
3/6/2019 4:29 pm

If a hot woman came up to a guy alone in a room and undid his fly and started to work on him, few guys would complain.


PCBDean57 61M  
25 posts
3/6/2019 3:33 am

It depends. On other vanilla sites I ran into a couple that wanted it right away. Kinda made me leery about their ulterior motives. But on here hadn't really made any contacts yet but as a rule I like to chat a couple of times first.


leonorfolk1972 46M  
27 posts
2/24/2019 10:31 pm

10 minutes for me but the lady just wanted a fuck normally like to get to know them first.


DOSTIKAROGI19 43M
45 posts
2/24/2019 3:40 am

It depends on the personality of both the partners. After all its a joint work for a single goal.


spoilyoubb 54M
28 posts
2/10/2019 12:41 pm

it just depends.....


oralguy200 72M
18 posts
2/6/2019 2:51 pm

In a swinging party say a half hour of chatting


thejashman 33M
35 posts
2/1/2019 5:12 am

if the chemistry is right from the first mn of the meet up i don't waste time


fun2bhadsoon 51M
19 posts
1/31/2019 8:29 am

it all depends...if you chat with someone and the chemistry is right, that could be all it takes, but it could take a few dates or chats to feel comfortable with that person. I also think it would be different for women opposed to men. It's a crap shoot....lol


funasianma1e 44M
93 posts
1/15/2019 9:58 pm

depends on the 2 people involved and the vibe they feel for one another.
If it takes one meeting to get it or if it takes a few meetings.


waterman230 43M  
5 posts
1/14/2019 2:52 pm

well im here for NSA so i think this is different for everyone. i want a women to want me tho. i like to talk a few times just to make sure. i refuse to pressure anyone into sex or anything else for that matter. just my nature i guess.


mcs4849 62M
30 posts
1/11/2019 8:43 pm

Not with all women but some definitely


Me59x 62M
22 posts
1/11/2019 8:19 pm

I had spent several weeks talking with women, then had a date or two to get to know them before jumping in the sack


MisterDingDong18 58M
30 posts
1/10/2019 1:42 pm

Depends on the person, the chemistry, your level of trust in them, your willingness to take risks, etc.

And let's face it, hormones can tilt many of us toward taking risks we might not take when we're not quite so horny.


Dan_Thevoyeur 68M  
1 post
1/7/2019 6:56 pm

It depends on the chemistry/energy you feel when you meet. I normally like knowing someone for a while, but I’ve had it occur in less than 2 hours after meeting. Very intense sex. Sometimes you just feel it.


GuyinVegas1 60M
6 posts
1/7/2019 9:35 am

If you are looking to fuck, then only enough time to say "Hi"


twoxjr 59M
6 posts
1/7/2019 6:09 am

it depends on how "HORNY" you are.


oldman1973 70M/33F  
512 posts
1/6/2019 9:06 pm

When we meet I Phon (F) will fuck for any man my husband has selected straight away


mcs4849 62M
30 posts
1/6/2019 10:58 am

It depends...have had situations when we clicked immediately, other times several meetings and a lot of chat time.


KT1207 50M
25 posts
1/5/2019 5:02 pm

It all depends on the chemistry, situation and mood... no formula.. just go with the flow.


brandini734 24M
84 posts
1/5/2019 3:35 pm

2-3 dates is the safest in my opinion.


smalltownhell 57M  
1 post
1/5/2019 9:40 am

2 nd wife 1 night stand togather8 yrs ..3rd wife same 12yrs


WellINever101 49M
76 posts
1/5/2019 8:31 am

I agree the genuine people here just wanna fuck. I’ve fucked a few women who I didn’t necessarily find attractive but boy could they suck a cock!!


MsGiving 49F  
1 post
1/5/2019 6:28 am

This is an adult site... the legit ones here are looking to fuck. If you're looking for something more meaningful, I'd suggest a dating site.


Yomocloud 30M
17 posts
1/4/2019 9:23 pm

The shortest amount of time was about 5 min after meeting we talked a little over the internet and she asked me to meet up and cum in her pussy. I meet up with her she said after about 5 min of talking can I suck your dick


ohsosmooth69 58F
10 posts
1/4/2019 3:27 pm

for me it has been as little as 10 minutes,and few times it was months,depends on the circumstances and person. the 10 minutes, makes me sound like a slut, but i had girl/girl fun with her"my roommate at the time, her and i talked about a 3some with her boyfriend, whom worked away at the time,and i had never met,i came home from work,knew he was coming over soon, went and showered, came out of the shower and he was there and they were already busy in my bedroom, thought this is a open invitation, walked up and said hi, can i join, she said please, he smiled and said HELL YES, so even less than 10 minutes, but enjoyable, hehehe, my first 3some, actually went through my mind i should wait, but thought i would chicken out if i thought about much, so i just seized the moment.


flasher4u3 61M  
48 posts
1/4/2019 11:39 am

I love having sex with my friends. It is very exciting when we both know what turns each other on and share feelings along with sensations. Having said that, I have had some very exciting experiences with total strangers a few times too!


330stevebsc 40M
8 posts
1/4/2019 11:30 am

It all depends on the connection. I personally am not someone to jump right into bed with someone.


edstarr2 53M/49F
8 posts
1/4/2019 9:43 am

just present yourself


Bull_mature 57M  
35 posts
1/4/2019 8:58 am

Depends on connect & chemistry between the two


EnjoyLife6446 61M
20 posts
1/3/2019 10:11 pm

each person an each situation is different


puzzieasslicker9 48M
28 posts
1/3/2019 5:14 pm

After we say hello.


agilelips 63M  
82 posts
1/3/2019 5:00 am

Surely it is all to do with chemistry. On occasion there is that instant mutual attraction where one literally cannot wait to get down and dirty. On another occasion a little chat, a few dates or even long term communication may be appropriate. There can be no hard and fast rules governing attraction.


cunnilingdude01 57M  
2 posts
1/2/2019 12:28 pm

I like to get to know a little bit about a woman before I hop in bed with her. I've been put into too many uncomfortable situations, and mostly a chemistry between two people turns good sex into great sex.


Cpllooking6671 52M/47F  
1150 posts
1/1/2019 1:08 pm

Since we are looking at both single & couples, it all depends on the chemistry and the dynamics of the personalities involved. We may or may not have a chance to chat some before a meet n greet or we have a few dinners after the meet n greet. We have played directly after the meet n greet cause that spark was there and the spontaneity was hot!
So all in all- Just go with the flow/feeling is how we see it.


69PussyLuver 51M
40 posts
1/1/2019 1:03 pm

It depends on who it is, and where. It's all about the instant connection, and chemistry. It can be as quick as a few minutes, or several days. I have met women during my airline career, where we hooked up right away. Other times, it takes a few dates.


PVJowe 59M/56F  
116 posts
1/1/2019 11:06 am

I like to at least get through a glass maybe 2 glasses of wine before I take him home


throatscock 91M

1/1/2019 5:02 am

Depends on the person. First appearance tells a lot about someone and it doesn't take long before you get turned on or off. Go with instinct I say.


Yourtoy2use2019 23M  
6 posts
12/31/2018 7:07 pm

Never to soon


sexybunny4love 52F  
255 posts
12/31/2018 6:48 pm

With some it's a week of chatting, others take time, depends how we click I guess, x

~ Dare to be different ~ sexybunny4love


Janet4fun2016 57T  
661 posts
12/31/2018 5:01 pm

When your both in the mood.


need2chew 57M
16 posts
12/31/2018 4:02 pm

if we talk for a few and agree what we want out of us hooking up


newportnewsman69 37M
13 posts
12/31/2018 9:18 am

Very interesting.


MyraJessie 38M
1 post
12/31/2018 8:15 am

nice tits love them


Timetraveler2 55M  
135 posts
12/31/2018 4:17 am

It seems that most of us feel the same, it depends on chemistry and the situation.


Keltstar1 54M
2 posts
12/30/2018 1:34 pm

It always depends on what chemistry/magic ignites upon meeting. Maybe the sexual desire will be immediate, or maybe it will be interest and a need to know more. Haven't we all had those experiences??? Basically, it's always what you feel most, and not to over think it . . . and to miss/lose something that intuition tells you will be unforgettable!


XGaladrielle 54F  
15 posts
12/29/2018 7:21 pm

Chemistry? I'm on this site to fuck, meet strangers in a hotel room, intense kissing as soon as he enters the room. sucking his cock after 1 minute. Don't wanna know his life,will never see him again.

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man4tgirl2 66M
21 posts
12/29/2018 3:58 pm

got to see if there is chemistry


sexydad1167 51M  
1357 posts
12/29/2018 1:35 pm

Ive had some women naked in 10-15 min of meeting after a day or a week of emails or texts. I haven't gone past second date in many many years. To me its so important to make sure we are completely sexually compatible otherwise no point in continuing especially if its going to be a romantic relatikonship.


CUMINYOU42 56M  
9 posts
12/29/2018 1:24 pm

I am just looking to fuck as love as they are DDF no need to wait


DoctorBooty 38M  
6190 posts
12/29/2018 7:46 am

It really depends for me. I have taken a hotwife to my apartment after one day of chatting, I've taken girls home from the bar, and i've chatted with some women for months before we could meet.

Invariably, the buildup makes it better, so long as the time is within reason. A few weeks at most. When it gets to months, then others will take your attention away.


johnt999x 57M
5 posts
12/29/2018 5:14 am

Been to a swingers and have had sex with a few women and I cannot even tell you there name. It was all about recreational sex


letsgettogeth119 72M
52 posts
12/28/2018 9:30 pm

Depends when we want to get it on.


872295433 31F
11 posts
12/28/2018 7:14 pm

If I am just looking for a one night stand, there is not reason to wait.


Luv2bottom4u2 61M  
1166 posts
12/28/2018 4:24 pm

Well I think it all depends, I am a bit older but I am sure things may somewhat be the same. I have met women at a bar and had sex that evening.
Then again it might of been a date or two before sex.


LetsChillax 52F  
738 posts
12/28/2018 12:07 pm

Fascinating


dammifiknow2 51M  
80 posts
12/28/2018 7:48 am

cliche as it is......it IS all about the chemistry.......physical, emotional, and mental


Knoxslutwife 43M/40F  
156 posts
12/28/2018 7:44 am

since we play totally safe, we don't even need to know your name, lets get it on!!!!!!


HedonicHeathen 51M
176 posts
12/28/2018 5:49 am

    Quoting LetsChillax:
    Gonna be all kinds of answers coming on this one I bet...
Of course you didn't clarify which even is the ideal time ... so I'd say that research has shown that most women decide within the first 15 seconds if a man is fuckable. Men gawk at that fact and not realize that strategy her eye contact can be subsumed as strategy too.

Men are the gas women are the brakes - it has been said, probably by some backseat driver. So extending that metaphor ... the vehicle traveling is the intimacy.

How soon is now?


yumehole 53F  
30 posts
12/28/2018 5:05 am

I've done 5 min. up to a couple months, prefer the 5 min.


Havelotsoffun09 58M
13 posts
12/27/2018 9:50 pm

Depends on the person and the trust and comfort level you have with each other. Sometimes, it's just automatic!


zeke53028 60M  
790 posts
12/27/2018 3:25 pm

My days of picking (or trying) up woman for sex are long gone. I much prefer getting to know someone and making a connection first. Now it's possible that can happen very quickly.


heavycummer245 48M  
3 posts
12/27/2018 3:05 pm

Depends on person. One girlfriend it was less than 30 mins after first meeting in a bar and she was sucking my cock, but we pretty much were both gagging for it that night


danthe69er 42M
76 posts
12/27/2018 2:22 pm

I agree depends on the person


sequimlooking 75M
9 posts
12/27/2018 1:18 pm

If I'm comfortable with them I could have sex within the hour after meeting them.


silk_petal_rose 55F  
1903 posts
12/27/2018 1:15 pm

30 to 60 days....all depends.

silky...


Aquariusto69U 50M
1 post
12/27/2018 12:54 pm

The question was “the least amount of time”. My answer to that would be, at least a couple hours. That’s the least amount of time it has taken for me and a partner to be comfortable enough with each other to engage in sexual activity.


Will88066 39M
21 posts
12/27/2018 11:33 am

I think it obviously depends on the person, but it also depends on the situation. Monday morning exchange glances and smiles at the gas station. Or Friday night exchanging glances and smiles at the bar after a few cocktails.


LetsChillax 52F  
738 posts
12/27/2018 9:50 am

What a fun poll


CarpeDiem22202 56M  
340 posts
12/27/2018 8:34 am

Great Question! I personally don't subscribe to any artificial "time requirement" before sharing pleasure with someone or a couple. If the feeling is right and mutual then why wait, if it needs more time to simmer then respect that and take a bit more time, especially if all parties are into fostering more than a one time thing. FWB with a Capital "F" is great! Happy New Year All! >>! happym;


mnoral 57M  
14 posts
12/27/2018 7:22 am

It depends sometimes a little chatting or just a face to face


runnerlover79 58M
1 post
12/27/2018 6:44 am

a few minutes, afew days. It depends on person and chemistry, and of course, timing.


jajo696 64F  
238 posts
12/27/2018 6:20 am

voted....

not into it for a hook up...im not a fly by kinda person....so i need to know the person is sincere and not nuts and not looking to satisfy an experience that they desire. That takes time and a certain connection.


gtrider28 62M  
663 posts
12/27/2018 6:16 am

I hate to fall into the same category as the majority here but it really does depend on the person. But on the other hand LOLO and time is fleeting


RobK2006 51M
4908 posts
12/27/2018 5:46 am

Hah! Ideally, I'd like to know the person for a while first, but, in the real world, if the mood strikes us both...


JMFuckon 58M  
29 posts
12/27/2018 5:00 am

Depends on person. I had it both ways.
You kinda know which way its going to go


SomewhereSE 61M
104 posts
12/27/2018 3:44 am

Long enough for them to return to their default rather than “best foot forward” behavior and to know them well enough to not make them the next “biggest mistake you’ve ever made.”


LetsChillax replies on 12/27/2018 4:50 am:
Legit.

Itsosoft 30F  
2 posts
12/27/2018 2:58 am

just take it moment by moment


powercaps716 62M
9459 posts
12/27/2018 2:11 am

depends on the person


sphxdiver 69M  
20413 posts
12/26/2018 9:26 pm

A lot of different factors play into it.

Lot of it depends on the person too.


lookin4herMI 46M
94 posts
12/26/2018 8:18 pm

Depends on the person, and situation. I went on 4 dates, and multiple phone, and text conversations before I was comfortable enough to be intimate with one woman. While after weeks of texts, and phone calls with another woman it only took a couple of drinks in person before we were undressing each other as quickly as we could. Then the last woman I will mention we had a very heated conversation late one night that ended in each other’s naked embrace by morning time. For me it all depends on how comfortable I am around her, and she has a lot to do with that, mood, attitude, or just vibes she’s putting off. I don’t think there is a right amount of time, or should you put a time limit on it. Go with the flow, go with your own gut feeling, and never let someone change what you’re feeling inside. I can say I never regretted being intimate with any of these women regardless of the amount of time I did, or didn’t know them.


golfnut5469 65M  
4 posts
12/26/2018 7:42 pm

depends on where you meet them, if you meet them on a site like this, then your both on the same mind set, should be quicker, On a regular dating site, take some time, you don't know what they are after


RyuFujin 51F  
142 posts
12/26/2018 6:25 pm

It varies, as everyone is different, and every situation will be different.

You could hit it off great through emails, chats, and texts, though when you do meet face-to-face... hmm, no chemistry? It has happened.

On the flip side of that is your interactions with one another here, phone calls/texts, produce an interest, but nothing major until you meet... then WHAM!
You're struck by lightning.

One can never tell.

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azriel1970 48M  
23912 posts
12/26/2018 6:17 pm

Totally depends on the person!!!


Whaoo196370 55M
30 posts
12/26/2018 4:45 pm

When both persons are comfortable with each other .


lok4fun500 108M  
43841 posts
12/26/2018 3:31 pm

At least time for me remove my hat (s)
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PAWAPh 42M
4965 posts
12/26/2018 3:27 pm

*Voted*

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xtremeblaz022 38M  
18 posts
12/26/2018 3:19 pm

It all depends on the person and the feeling that may be there. Sometimes you can just click and want to go for it. Then you have other times you want to what and learn more about the person. But most the time when you do sleep with someone right after meeting it never seems to really last.


IVFalternative 47M
252 posts
12/26/2018 3:17 pm

Within 30 seconds of sending them a dick pic.

C======3

At least, that's how I assume I'd like it to go. I'll let you know if it ever happens

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pocogato12 66F  
25617 posts
12/26/2018 3:11 pm

All kinds of scenarios!!! But trust comes first

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redrockrascal 60M
19847 posts
12/26/2018 3:11 pm

    Quoting benard69:
    There is no right answer for all...It's when you are comfortable
Yup this

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


justskin1 67M
11034 posts
12/26/2018 3:05 pm

I want some time to get comfortable with her and the time can vary from person to person. Certainly don't feel comfortable going from online to meeting for sex.

If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin."

I always behave. Preferably not well.


benard69 63M/63F  
4095 posts
12/26/2018 3:00 pm

There is no right answer for all...It's when you are comfortable


bitchkitty2017 66F  
3032 posts
12/26/2018 2:59 pm

voted and personally I don't feel I could just meet and get intimate as I dislike hook ups which it pretty much is ...I prefer an fwb situation as I am just widowed a couple years and am disabled because of an accident ..I want to feel a bit secure first...so far its been going good..


flaguy522 63M  
1434 posts
12/26/2018 2:59 pm

I think when both feel comfortable, have at it!!! Could be instantaneous or could take awhile.


LetsChillax 52F  
738 posts
12/26/2018 2:45 pm

Gonna be all kinds of answers coming on this one I bet...


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