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jolielaide 52 F
53  questions
sweet piece - 10/28/2016

cool shell, hard nut nestled in my cheek, up against my tongue doing a slow, hot melt. its NATIONAL CHOC'LATE DAY!! love a peanut m & m. when you gotta have it, what is your go to sweet piece of candy

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jolielaide 52 F
53  questions
what's in a name??? - 4/11/2016

does a profile username have any influence on your decision to read, 'friend', or HOTLIST someone? or does a username cause you to pause or ignore a profile all together? examples such as: 'freecooki

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jolielaide 52 F
53  questions
takes 10m - 1/18/2015

singing daily for at least ten minutes reduces stress, clears sinuses, improves posture and can even help you live longer. what is your go to sing song? mine is 'i wanna be where you are'. what's your

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jolielaide 52 F
53  questions
wwud - 10/27/2014

an acquaintance left their cat in my care in 2008. i've asked repeatedly when they were coming back for their cat and got all kinds of excuses, as to why they couldn't. (sigh) so i just resigned mysel

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jolielaide 52 F
53  questions
is it happening to you? - 3/24/2014

have had other members tell me i've viewed their profiles, when the fact of the matter is i haven't. when i look at the profiles i have viewed, there are more than a few that i don't even recognize. i

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jolielaide 52 F
53  questions
dude, you're sued! - 9/28/2008

short version - a 'very good'friend and former intimate partner fell in my home and hurt their ankle. now nine months later they say they want to look into suing me. would you mind being sued by a fri

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jolielaide 52 F
53  questions
what would you do? - 6/28/2008

people marry for their own reasons, right? so i'm just going to ask this w/o giving all the boring details except for one - love has nothing to do with it. they know you don't love them but want to ma

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jolielaide 52 F
53  questions
you can't make this shit up - 4/18/2008

this is the short version - a year or so ago i had a fellow mbr come to my home for some harmless fun. about four months ago he emails me and says he's working in a local store, the shop is empty and

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jolielaide 52 F
53  questions
just been duped and not the first time either - 4/5/2008

as i am writing this, i am on Y! with a fellow mbr who has just revealed they are not who they say in profile or picture. it's not the first time these guys have fooled me and this guy in parti

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jolielaide 52 F
53  questions
that's to far - 3/28/2008

i most always consider distance when someone wants to meet. i just don't like it when someone has to make a 'drive', even if they're willing to do so. though sex hasn't been discussed i think they thi

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jolielaide 52 F
53  questions
can i get your number? - 3/26/2008

one guy told me the reason he will ask for a phone no. is so that he can call the woman first - it is the gentlemanly thing to do. i think fair is fair. if a person is going to ask for your num

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jolielaide 52 F
53  questions
need grooming? - 3/18/2008

i'll make this short - would you shave a friend if they asked you to? the reason why they can't might factor into the type of answer you give but the bottomline is that they're physically unable to do

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jolielaide 52 F
53  questions
do you stand by your man? - 3/12/2008

based on known public events - your very powerful political husband cheating with prostitutes and you're first lady of the state, mrs. spitzer, would you stand by your man and stay in your +20yr marri

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jolielaide 52 F
53  questions
is spitz the pits? - 3/12/2008

ny governor, eliot spitzer, resigned his post after being caught in a sting by the feds. like marijuana should be legalized so that those that want it can get/have it and not go to jail or lose thei

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jolielaide 52 F
53  questions
funny glitches - 1/30/2008

i laughed when i saw it - a profile is only suppose to list up to 100 views in the last 30 days. mine says 682 views and for total views (since joining) it says 0. does any body else have any weirdly

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jolielaide 52 F
53  questions
hotlist hotlist - 10/15/2007

i have a couple profiles on my hotlist where it says 'profile turned off or inactive'. does that mean that it was automatically turned-off or did the person turn off their own profile? and i already c

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jolielaide 52 F
53  questions
are you low? - 10/7/2007

recently read a column in a (popular) magazine that said 'studies show that exhibitionism and low self-esteem go hand in hand'. i may be a little shy but low self esteem . .. do you feel that being on

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jolielaide 52 F
53  questions
hot in herre - 6/26/2007

summer heat up in the 90's - could blast the a.c. or turn the fan on . .. you do anything special to beat the heat? a neighbor bought an ice machine and carries ice to munch on wherever she goes.

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jolielaide 52 F
53  questions
this ain't europe - 6/22/2007

in europe this is not an issue - there's a nude/clothing optional beach in my county and i've noticed lately that a lot of families bring their there (pre and early teens). it just seems weird having

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jolielaide 52 F
53  questions
natural tan or spa tan - 6/21/2007

it's the first official day of summer - does anyone have an opinion on these spa tans? my friend got a membership, goes all the time, and now looks orange. not to hurt her feelings but it looks unnatu

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jolielaide 52 F
53  questions
green means go, red means stop - 6/20/2007

when viewing a profile under the Mutual Match heading, how often do you take into account the green check marks and the red x's to determine likability? are you put off by too many red x's?

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jolielaide 52 F
53  questions
pee play - 6/19/2007

some are NOT into watersports (urolagnia) but its been said that if you get stung by a jellyfish, have someone pee on you to diminish the sting. does anyone know if this same thing would work for bees

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jolielaide 52 F
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cd burn - 6/17/2007

summer is here and with b-b-ques and pool parties to attend in addition to other soirees, i'm putting together my own cd compilation of party songs. do you have a hands down favorite, make-you-dance-e

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jolielaide 52 F
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reduce recycle reuse - 6/16/2007

i was recently reminded of a commercial i saw when i was younger, of the one-tear indian sitting on his crying over the litter being thrown on the highway .. . are people still recycling? you guys ha

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jolielaide 52 F
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Father's Day - 6/14/2007

with Father's Day fast approaching is there anyone with a unique or different gift idea for the men/man who has just about everything there is already?

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jolielaide 52 F
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my day in court - 6/14/2007

in a few weeks i have to go to traffic court and on the summons my name is spelled wrong. for those of you in or know about law enforcement, is this detail something i can use to get a dismissal? the

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jolielaide 52 F
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mother/ spat. - 6/6/2007

my best friend and her mother had a falling out (this is going on close to a year now). however, i've remained friends with both. but because the mother keeps in contact with me thru email(s) and NOT

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