Hello. I am on the site looking to meet someone that would like to start off with a open relationship. I have not done it yet, but I am a bit obsessed with having a hotwife (or gf equivalent) that loves for me to watch her. Ideally this would be something we share and that she really enjoys because I am a part of it and we do it together. I think starting off with this as the intent of the relationship at the beginning is likely better than having a regular relationship and turning it to this type of one. I hope you are interested in being a hotwife and will reach out. About my other life, I am a successful, well educated executive in science and technology. I have a really good life in the city and love everything NYC has to offer. I love going out dancing, partying, and getting a little wild. I also like outdoor activities like running, hiking, and skiing. I travel a lot for work and have been to numerous cities in Europe, and once to India. I am funny smart, a good conversationalist, self aware of my feelings and thoughts and how they affect my behavior. I am a pretty good guy with a great life and this kink of having a hotwife. In terms of the hotwife...I am not a cuck. No humiliation or bossing me around. It is more like we do this together, I am really more of an alpha, take charge, leader type, and I will likely want to lead and direct because that is who I am. I want it to be more she wants both--a connection with someone great, and a lot of hot sex with anyone she wants and someone to watch it. I hope this has grabbed your attention and you want to chat. I look forward to hearing from you. Rich

My Ideal Person Ideally it is about the nature of the hotwife relationship, and how they want to do it. So, matching my thoughts above is ideal. I really would like someone that is still into going out to the club in their sexy dresses and partying all night. I would want someone that was very attractive and sexy and stylish. also someone sweet and affectionate, and obviously with a very high sex drive.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
My fantasy is to have a wife that I would dress up in sexy,
revealing, slutty club wear and take her out dancing at
the hottest places in the city...i would walk her in and
find a spot...after a bit i would leave her alone for a bit,
and see who eventually comes to talk to her...she chats
and flirts, the chemistry is clear, the heat building.
She gives a few hints and then makes a move...she leans in
and whispers for him to follow her to the restroom. I see
them leave and wait...heading back after them. standing
outside making sure no one comes in, hearing the my wife
giving it to some random stranger she just picked up..

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Role Playing, Threesomes, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Leather, Latex, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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