I’m the big handsome out of the box type of guy. I don’t let what others think about me affect my actions or life. Generally I prefer one on one time with people, but can handle myself in any size group and am really good at spinning things to my advantage. I’m a mechanical engineer with my own design build firm, so numbers and being an out of the box thinker are a big part of my life. I’m always thinking of new and odd contraptions to build, luckily my business finances my kinky habits. Relationship wise I have been single the last year. Dedicated way to much time to developing my business, now that things are running smoothly I feel it’s time to step back a bit and open myself up. I am a hedonist and poly-amorous in it's true definitions. As a hedonist I believe in all things that bring one pleasure, no matter how perverse society might view it. As a poly-amorous per, I believe that no one per can satisfy all of the mental and spiritual needs of another. Sexually I am very open, I am capable of the light touch that eases your fears to the sadism that leaves you limp and bruised for days. I have participated in the BDSM scene for almost 14 years. As of late I have been designing and building kinky contraptions for the community. Now looking at my picture, you will say dam he is a handsome devil. Just keep in mind I’m a big ol’ handsome devil. Life is never dull. Have I peaked your interest? There is so much more I can go on about, but I prefer actual interaction with people. If you have any questions or want any info just message me.

My Ideal Person Just be open to experimenting and trying everything at least once.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, The stands at a sporting event, A remote wilderness spot, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Leather, Fisting

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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