So here's a little info about us... We are both 35 years old, married (been together for a loooong time), no , and we have a sense of adventure. Very clean, VERY discreet, never any STDs, no smoking, and a great appreciation for wine, friends, and being in the mountains and on the water. What we are ideally looking for is another couple (or couples) similar to us that we can meet with a few times, and develop a bit of friendship and a significant amount of trust, and, of course, have some sexual adventures with. After doing this a few times we've come to realize that one-nighters (or jumping in head-first with people we don't know at all) just aren't for us. We are not necessarily looking to develop super-close bonds with others (though it'd be awesome to make new friends), but we do need to be able to establish trust before we play! Ethnicity or race do not matter. About her: Definitely into the guys. Same-room sex/swaps only. MAYBE bi-curious, but it's got to be the right situation, and probably pretty limited play no matter how it starts. About him: Definitely into the gals. Same-room sex/swaps only. Not at all bi or bi-curious, but not afraid of other guys being close - it's just no big deal. We never spend time in chat rooms or using instant messengers, but we do like to trade a few e-mails and then meet in person when everyone feels comfortable doing so. We'll even travel a few miles to meet (as we hope others would be willing to do the same). Cheers!

My Ideal Person People who are relaxed and similar to us.
People who are not afraid to meet in person.