Swap Verb 1. To exchange or trade, as one thing for another. Looking For: We're ideally seeking an FWB relationship with another couple. Travelling companions, friends in addition to partners. Also individual men and women. Is there another couple who thinks about swapping like we do? It seems that the lifestyle has taken a turn toward the same room, same bed, heck same partner sometimes! For us, the idea of swapping is to swap spouses. But we have almost given up on whether it would be possible to find another couple who is interested and willing to follow through with a longer term swap. So, first of all, we are interested and open to separate swapping of partners, to different locations, and it really could be overnight, maybe a weekend, maybe longer? We have been together a long time. We love each other very much, but after a few years in the lifestyle we realized what we really want is the possibility of MORE in our new relationships. We certainly both crave the excitement and fantasy of actually having a short term (maybe longer term??) romance with a new partner. The thought of going on a mini-vacation, while exploring our new partners completely, is thrilling, a little scary (but in the good way), and wonderful. We have absolutely zero jealousy except a healthy little funny feeling when we think of our beloved in another's embrace. We love each other enough to want the other to be totally fulfilled and totally happy. We of course would want to share this with a couple who feels the same way. Of course, for this to work, we would all need to be attracted to each others' partner. We would hope that would happen, but of course you never know. The first part, though, is to find a couple who would be OPEN and desiring that possibility, who has no damaging jealousies, and just want their own partners to be happy. A little about us. We are a couple in our forties, both thought to be attractive and look younger than our chronological age. We retired early, and are free to travel. We are both VERY romantic. We love the flirt and to be intellectually seductive. We were both professionals and are educated, but not snobs at all! In terms, as I mentioned we are both very romantic, so love long, long seductions, foreplay, with LOTS and LOTS of kissing, stroking, petting, whispering.... We could do that for hours before culminating with intense passionate intercourse. There is little we do not like, but that can be developed with our new partners. Our fantasy along this line is to meet another couple who feels the same way and wants to explore the same thing. We would meet all four of us, after a bit of online connection, either email or texting to make sure we feel some connection, maybe separate Skype calls? But then we would meet, maybe on a Friday afternoon. If we still are all interested in pursuing this, we would then split up, going off with our new partners. I would love it to be for a weekend, kind of like a long "date." That would really give us the chance to get to know our new partners fully, with no time constraints, not too much thinking about what the other couple is doing, but being totally focused on each other. Something like going off to different bed and breakfasts in nearby towns could be really fun and romantic! We would then all meet back on Sunday, and see how it all went. We would then have time after to talk to our spouses about how it went and how we feel (although maybe not sharing ALL the details! lol), and then deciding if we want to pursue this further. Our fantasy, again, is to see where it goes on its own with minimal constraints. SO, those are our thoughts. We would want to make sure we are all on the same page before sharing pics and connecting. Because, probably, unless there is something screwy, if we got to that point, this probably would develop and we just want to be sure we all are OK with pursuing this goal. We are definitely into fulfilling others' fantasies. We're open to a variety of situations, both together and separately.  

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